Before I had children, I remember a pastor friend talking to me about apologizing to his son whenever he sins against him. His son was five at the time. For some reason, the idea of needing to repent of my sin to my children, especially very young ones, had never crossed my mind. That conversation stuck with me, and when I became a parent myself a few years later, I knew it was something I should put into practice. Telling a preschooler that you are sorry for having such a short temper with them is a humbling experience. It would be much easier to ignore it and keep my pride. I’ve learned that doing this reminds me of how much I need God’s grace.

Parenting is hard work, but in it I continue to see the grace of God in new ways. I see my sin, but I also see the amazing children God has given me. I fail them everyday but their love is a reminder that God gives me more than I deserve.

Sandra McCracken’s song “Grace Upon Grace” (based on John 1:16) is a good reminder in the midst of the ups and downs of parenthood:

In every station, new trials and new troubles Call for more grace than I can afford Where can I go but to my dear Savior For mercy that pours from boundless stores.

Grace upon grace, every sin repaired Every void restored, you will find Him there In every turning He will prepare you With grace upon grace.

He made a way for the fallen to rise Perfect in glory and sacrifice In sweet communion my need He supplies He saves and keeps and guards my life.

To Thee I run now with great expectation To honor You with trust like a child My hopes and desires seek a new destination and all that You ask Your grace will provide.